Girls, Girls, Girls!!!

As the classic saying goes, when it comes to women, you can’t live with them, and you can’t live without them!

I know I know, how juvenile and unoriginal is it for me to be writing about the opposite sex, especially for my first blog.  However, it has something that has really been frustrating me lately.  Personally, the opposite sex has always been a bit of a mystery to me (and I am sure I am not the only one).  As a child, I was always told to treat women with the utmost respect, and (I know that this might sound corny) to treat them as if they were a gentle flower.  I guess my mom tried to raise me as the perfect guy for all of women kind.  I guess it is because of this that I have always seen myself as a relationship kind of guy rather the hookup type. 

Anyways….

With how most women describe us guys now-a-days (jerks, pigs, asshole, morons, etc.), you would assume that I would have had my share of relationships? Wrong! As much as women like to complain about guys, why the fuck do they never ever fucking learn?!?!  Maybe you can say that I am acting a bit “bitter”…maybe I am, I don’t deny it, but when you constantly have to hear “why is he doing that?” “what does that mean?” “why can’t I find a good guy?” and all that shit.  It gets irritating, and even worse is when a guy has feelings with said girl because the dude has to hear a chick complain while he really wants to say “Well maybe you should give me a shot?” (I’ve been there before and it sucks!)  And to add to that, a lot of the times where a good guy is in such a situation, said girl justifies not giving the guy a shot because he is not her type.

WTF?!?!?

1) HOW ARE GOOD GUYS LIKE US NOT YOUR TYPE? U JUST SAID GOOD GUYS ARE!

2) HAVEN’T YOU LADIES EVER HEARD THAT OPPOSITES ATTRACT? ALSO IF YOU HAVE BEEN CONSTANTLY SCREWED OVER BY GUYS WHO ARE ALL ALIKE…GIVE US GOOD GUYS A SHOT…WHO KNOWS? MAYBE US GUYS WILL SURPRISE YOU BUY NOT SCREWING YOU OVER!

And then the defense of why women do it is another story.  But to keep it sweet and simple, they make no sense and just are flat out S-T-U-P-I-D! 

And you know what?

Girls go through this by guys.  I am not denying that at all.  But lately, I have just felt as if people have neglected that girls can also be shallow and complete bitches too.  Women are capable of breaking a guys heart just as guys are able to do to them. 

So to conclude. To the good guys out there in this crazy and lonely world: I feel you.  I am a good guy too and if this has happened to you too, then you completely understand where I am coming from.  Be patient and do not look for the right one for you.  Let her find you. To the Ladies, well, not all guys are alike, so please do not generalize that all us guys are pigs, especially if you refuse to actually try and date one of the good ones out their.  Either give us a shot or quit complaining.